eHarmon-me: Day 3

This morning, when I checked my email at work, I found 7 new matches, 0 requests for communication from these new matches, and 2 that had answered my questions that I posed back for them.

When I got home and logged on, I found the matches were pretty true to form. The usual 50/25/25. 50% with no photos, 25% I was not attracted to in the least, and 25% okay. I had a lot of "students" this time and I am not interested in a student, unless it says law student. One was actually, and he was a hottie, but no communication requests from him. Also, I was back to the shorties again (as in they are all coincidentally 5'8").

eHarmony Conclusion 1: Short men love eHarmony.

What bothers me the most about this, is most likely, they are lying about their height. For every guy that says he's 5'8", I'm betting he's more like 5'6".

I closed out the ones that I just was not attractive to. I read the answers from the two that replied back. One was the police officer that I found cute from the other day. I sent him my must haves/can't stands. The other, I'm still a little hesitant on, because he's the one that hasn't shown his picture. I think I'll wait this one out a little bit.

I don't have responses from the other two that I sent questions back to. So, either they just haven't logged on yet, or they didn't like my answers. But seriously, how much are guys looking at those answers? I seriously doubt they're ruling girls out based on their answers. If the girl's mildly attractive, he's probably meeting up with her and then going from there.

So, I decided to search for new matches. I received 7 new ones. They really love 7 at a time, and the demographics fit the same 50/25/25. Just for kicks, I ran the search for new matches again, and they said they didn't have any new matches. But you know what, I guarantee I have 7 new matches when I wake up tomorrow.

Right now, I have 28 total matches. 18 that are open. 7 of which I am in communication with - 2 that I am waiting for answers, 1 that I sent must haves, 1 that responded to my questions, but doesn't have a photo, and the 3 that I don' know what to do with - the ones from yesterday. I'm thinking I might close them out. I just am not attracted to them, but I think I'll let them live in limbo for a little bit longer.

Something I'm curious about. I haven't had anyone close me out, but I have 11 that haven't done anything with me. Are these guys keeping me in limbo? Or are they exploring something with someone right now and want to see how that goes before they try someone new? Also, some may be people that signed up to receive their free personality profile, and 5 free matches. Also, I've read about how sometimes they don't close down accounts. This is a problem in a lot of these sites, or so I have heard. So, they may not even be logging in. That's why I think I'll wait to have the guy make the first move on me!

xoxo, Maxi