Today's update will be pretty short. I didn't have the usual flood of emails into my inbox since I had turned matching off for awhile. Also, if I read correctly on eHarmony Blog, the person who initiates communication has to be the first to answer open ended questions, so I sent police officer some questions.
Let me tell you, thinking of good questions was stressful! There was a list you could choose from, but they were very serious, and marriage-oriented. I thought I did okay. We'll see what happens. I'm still waiting to hear back from two other guys. I think I'll see how next week goes, then maybe turn matching back on if I haven't heard anything.
On a side note, back to Major. He's been calling every other day. I wonder if he's trying to wean me off. As I sort of mentioned in my Day 1 Blog, last Sunday I had a lot to drink and decided to call Major. I talked to him about going and visiting. I said I didn't think I'd be able to get out there for a couple of months, and perhaps by the time I got out there, he'd be seeing someone, and it wouldn't be appropriate for me to come visit. His response was just "I doubt that" and sort of laughed. But he didn't say anything about me being the only one for him, or something like that. Then, I said I really missed him. I wasn't expecting "I love you Maxi. I think we should be serious and try this long distance." But I certainly wasn't expecting "thank you." That really hurt. Hence the reason I joined eHarmony to begin with. I was feeling rather fragile! But anyways, the calls are coming every other day now, instead of every day. And our conversations are quite shorter. I think it's time to let go. I do think he's just calling either out of habit, or because he's lonely. Either way, it's not an ideal foundation for a relationship.
xoxo, Maxi
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